Living Life Queen Size

Living life, Queen Size, yes, I swear by it. For my close friends, I am Carrie Bradshaw, and our lives almost resemble episodes from Sex and the City.There are many who get scandalized about the way we look at life and all that it throws at us, but we never said we were easy gals to deal with. I am sure my childhood buddy Pranks would agree to that.

Now to think of it, how do I exactly manage to live life queen size?!After all its just one life, gotta live it just the way I want. And quite a few close friends of mine swear by the same mantra. Being High maintenance gals never hurt any of us. Maybe its the upbringing which has got something to do with it, or was it the books and magazines we soak ourselves into, we are clearly a breed apart. 


First things first, we are Emotionally High Maintenance. To decipher our minds and emotions, is even complicated than solving the Rubik's Cube. Mood swings, yes, its always up our alley. So our men need to be careful on what they even utter casually to us. Rihanna's Only Girl in the world echoes our mind to some extent.

my favorite hobby

Shopaholic: We confess, we are. Shopping is something which does not require an occasion, its a  way of life for us. Day offs or weekends in most cases, include more than just a passing glance at our favorite stores. We do experiment, but its usually our signature stores, which see us flocking over and over again. And indulgence is something we specialise in. We give diamonds a miss for our Chanels, golds become a No No, when its Gucci on the stands. We swear to match our belts with our shoes, and fashion faux pas is harakiri for us. Its quite a blessing that I managed a man, who is all about the same sentiments, when it comes to retail. Its after all a therapy, and don't all of us lead stressful lives already.


Hate Wannabes and Hypocrites: People making tall claims about buying 20 pairs of shoes, when all that they have picked up are a few flip flops are the kind of people we love to avoid. Men who wear the same jacket every time they are clicked, yet make tall claims on how much they spend. In simple words Wannabes and Hypcrites are our biggest turnoffs. So all those who desperately try to just fit into the league, yet have no clue about what our living is all about, send us running away. Beings superbly choosy about the kind of company we keep, is up our league always. Its not about being exclusive, its about having a signature way of living, where everyone does not simply fit in. And Hypocrisy is like lemon juice in a glass of milk for us. We are branded as being loud mouths, and we love it that way. Speaking up, is something we advocate, so all those slimy creatures, out there, just stay away from our tracks. The cats are out in action.

my man

Love men with a backbone: Be it boyfriends/husbands or just buddies to hand out with, we love our men to be men.A man who is a man in the truest sense, not only just one in a  bedroom. A man who adores honesty as much as we do. A man who is rational, a man who is sensible, a man who makes an effort to understand me, a man who has the guts to stand up for me, a man who is utterly adorable, a man with a backbone in place. Lucky I picked up the last of the few eligible bachelors off the dating scene.
               Sissys do not work for us at all. Men(read in their 30s) who call up their mom, that why their best friend is not talking to them, are the kinds whole become the butt of our jokes usually. Lets face it, we are more manly than them when it comes to  matters of life. So such men are on the list of No Nos for us always.

my gang

Lastly: Friends mean the world for us: We are branded as choosy, snobbish,snooty, stiff uppper lips, and hence we just have a small and exclusive coterie. And we simply can stand at the edge of a dagger for our friends. Friends are our lifeline. Be it in good times or teary eyed moments, its our friends who walk shoulder to shoulder with us..